A Companion's Guide to Essential Terminology

Hello, dear readers. I've often found myself frustrated by the persistent misunderstandings surrounding our industry's lexicon. It's astonishing how many gentlemen or even providers themselves remain unfamiliar with the basics—leading to awkward encounters and missed opportunities for genuine connection. Today, I'm here to clarify some of the most commonly used terms in the escort industry, explaining their meanings and significance. By the end of this post, you'll not only grasp the language but also appreciate the nuance, professionalism, and allure that define our craft. Whether you're a curious newcomer or a seasoned enthusiast, this guide aims to foster clearer, more respectful interactions. Let's dive in, shall we?

Who Is an Escort?

Drawing from my own years in this intricate and multifaceted profession, I can say that being an escort is far more than a mere transaction—it's an art form centered on companionship. At its essence, the escort industry is a sophisticated service sector where individuals like myself offer time, presence, and tailored experiences to clients, typically in exchange for a fee. These services can span from elegant accompaniment at social galas, business dinners, or cultural events to deeper, more intimate engagements that blend emotional intimacy with physical pleasure.

One big myth I love to bust (time and time again): many people assume that every encounter with an escort or companion automatically includes sex. That's simply not the case. A surprising number of my bookings are purely about companionship—deep, meaningful conversations over a candlelit dinner, quiet moments in a hotel room where I listen and provide emotional support during tough times, or simply taking the weight off your shoulders with my presence. Sometimes it's just about having an elegant, charming date on your arm for a high-profile event.
Companions like me are often sharp, confident women—natural leaders who excel at reading the room, adapting effortlessly to any environment, and creating experiences you'll look back on with a smile. At the end of the day, what we truly sell is our minds: wit, empathy, emotional intelligence, and that spark of connection. The body is just the beautiful packaging—the real value lies in the brain.

Common Terminology Explained

Like any specialized field—from finance to fine arts—the escort world boasts its own jargon, which can bewilder outsiders. This specialized language isn't just shorthand; it's a tool for clear communication, setting expectations, and ensuring mutual satisfaction. Below, I'll break it down into categories: roles within the industry, service styles and acts, and logistical terms. 

Roles in the Industry

• Escort/Companion/Courtesan/Provider: These terms are often used interchangeably; they all refer to a professional who is paid primarily for her time and companionship. The services can range from purely social outings—like dinner dates or events—to more intimate encounters. Sexual elements, such as intercourse or oral, may be included in some bookings, but they’re far from guaranteed; in many of my sessions, the focus is entirely on meaningful conversation, emotional connection, providing a listening ear, or simply sharing enjoyable, relaxed company.
  We’re like temporary girlfriends or modern-day muses: intelligent, charming, and skilled at creating moments that feel genuinely special. As a local companion here in my beautiful home country of Slovenia, I have a wonderful advantage—visiting gentlemen often seek out a true local experience. They love having someone who can share insider stories about our culture, hidden gems, delicious food and wine, or what makes Slovenian women so captivating. It turns a simple date into a mini adventure, blending companionship with a personal tour of everything this stunning country has to offer.
• Call Girls (sometimes unfortunately just lumped in as "escorts" too): These are providers who usually work from a fixed location, like an apartment, and focus more on seeing a higher volume of clients rather than fully personalized, longer experiences. They tend to offer quicker, more straightforward sessions, which makes them popular for gentlemen looking for something efficient and accessible. That said, the quality can absolutely be fantastic—it all depends on the individual and how much passion she brings to her work. In Slovenia, these are usually foreign women, like Latinas or Ukrainians, who, in most cases, are also not independent workers. 
• Massage Girls: Similar to escorts but with a real focus on massage skills, these providers often have training or expertise (school, or some kind of certificate) in various massage techniques, from relaxing physiotherapy to more sensual, erotic styles that build to a "happy ending" (typically manual release, like a handjob or blowjob). They usually set clear boundaries by advertising "no full sex" or "no oral" to stand out from full-service options, which is why their rates are generally lower—often about half the price. It is also important to know the difference between sensual massage and erotic massage. First focus purely on relaxation and emotional connection between partners, while erotic massage generally has more sexual undertones (nuru). 

Service Styles and Common Acts

This is where the excitement builds—these terms describe the flavor and intensity of encounters, allowing clients to articulate desires precisely. Remember, consent and boundaries are paramount; these are customizable experiences tailored to mutual enjoyment.

• GFE (Girlfriend Experience - typically BBBJ, DFK, DATY, and MSOG included): Envision a tender, affectionate rendezvous that mimics a romantic date. It includes deep conversations, gentle cuddling, passionate kissing, and an overall sense of warmth and connection. As someone who excels in GFE, I love creating that illusion of intimacy—holding hands, sharing laughs, and making you feel truly seen.
• PSE (Porn Star Experience, usually includes all the dirty tricks): For those craving something bolder and more uninhibited, PSE delivers an intense, performative adventure straight out of adult films. Think raw passion, adventurous positions, and a touch of the taboo—perhaps with elements like rough play or BDSM. Imagine the thrill of saliva trailing from my lips after I've taken you deep, embodying that naughty, nasty edge that leaves you breathless and begging for more ;)
• FS (Full Service): This encompasses complete sexual intercourse, often as part of a broader session (usually also anal included)

Logistics

The practical side ensures smooth, safe arrangements—key to maintaining the allure without unnecessary hiccups.

• Incall: The client visits the provider's designated space, offering convenience and a controlled environment. Usually, with providers who are not independent, but it's true that also independent providers do offer incall, just much less, as we have other options as well. 
• Outcall: My personal favorite—the provider travels to you, often at a hotel, which feels secure and luxurious, allowing for a more immersive escape.
• FMTY (Fly Me to You): A glamorous option where a client covers travel expenses, flying you to their location for an extended rendezvous. It's the epitome of high-end indulgence, perfect for jet-set adventures.